Let me tell you, you’re in GOOD company.
Everyone has done this at one time or another. We all say things we regret and we’ve all “put our foot in our mouth”.
The question is, what do we do after we’ve messed up and said the wrong thing?
First, we acknowledge it. The only way to change is to acknowledge where we’re at and move towards where we want to be.
We also need to apologize and then move on. God forgives you, most people will understand and will forgive you and you must forgive yourself.
One of my favorite verses I pray, most days is Psalm 141:3 “Set a guard over my mouth, Lord; keep watch over the door of my lips.”
Submitting my mouth to the Lord has helped me “think before I speak.”
Being aware of your tendencies, submitting to God and asking him to help you, and apologizing when you’ve made a mistake will make you a better communicator all around.
We would like to thank Julie Snellgrove for answering this question.